Girls always seems to think they have the ability to change a guy, (not sure about everyone, but i certainly do sometime)
but truthfully, you cant. You get upset when they are the same as ever. Well maybe you shouldnt set yourself unachieveable challange next time then =]
Even though I know guys are unchangeable, i do admit I wanted to try.
But hey, life isnt a fairytale. Ofc they stay the same and tell you
"you knew i was like this all along, so why try to change me now? I wont change ok? "
And maybe, maybe there would be one day where you have given up.
Not given up to change them, i meant given up to hope and given up the relationship.
Then maybe, they will come running back to you and say
"Oh please dont go, I know im an idiot and i am wrong.. please stay with me.. I will change in any sort of ways, you can tell me what i need to change..."
I wouldnt say they wont change at all, but how long would the change last for?
Another case scenario...
This happens in films and such...
A guy who hv lost the ability to love because of a heart breaking relationship they used to have..
and then a girl came along to try to make them feel again.
ER.. this doesnt work either. Who do you think you are?
why do you think you can change anyone?
But ofc you can argue that, if the girl love the boy enough, then he will eventually feel the love and fall in love with the girl.. and i totally respect that, just... how many girls are willing to have a single-way love relationship until forever when the guy eventually found love?
The 2 scrnario doesnt direct to anyone that I know :O I am not talking about you!
these are just the things i feel. I can totally understand if you have an opposite opinion,
its just my feelings :)
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